In her presence he finds it easy and natural to take charge. She doesn't impose on him any unecessary requirements of performance. Her expectations are reasonable and logical. They are within his limited capacity and potentials. She always adjusts to his boundaries. It does not matter what they are...emotional, spiritual, social or even financial. She will find a way to create happiness and satisfaction. She will find a way to be accommodating in all circumstances.
It's a seamless, natural transition from passive to active role whenever she is around. There is delight in rising to the occasion to meet her needs. It may not be easy all the time but the rewards are always worth the effort. Her glowing smile of satisfaction and the regular affirmations of love and loyalty are all that are needed. It is enough to make him want to climb mountains and swim across oceans in pursuit of her desires. She is not manipulative or controlling. She is always simple minded and sincere.
She's comfortable in the space he creates for her. She smiles and laughs easily. She has eyes only for him. She is determined to make the best of what is available and to maximize what is provided. He is driven more by the desire to see her happy. Many are motivated by the fear of failure or the complaining or nagging rants. Indeed, she is not capable of going even that far.
It's ironic that the happiest seem to be the most unambitious. She does not find joy in "stuff". Instead she finds joy in having a loving partner that adores her and is willing to slay dragons in pursuit of her happiness.
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